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Francois Esterhuizen
Nov 20, 20233 min read
#63 The lion and the bird
This blog post is part of a series on relationships. If you have not yet done so, I would encourage you to read the earlier blog posts in...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Nov 20, 20233 min read
#62 Choosing true love
We are spending a few weeks looking at relationships, stopping last week at the infatuating effect of romantic love. The world is awash...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Nov 7, 20233 min read
#61 Love is a drug
If you have ever fallen in love you will know; something seemingly inexplicable happens. In a crowd full of people you notice this one...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Oct 30, 20233 min read
#60 Relationships: Why do we fall in love?
We all long for that deep joy and sense of connection that floods us when we are newly in love. But why do we choose who we choose? Is it...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Aug 27, 20232 min read
#52 Why the pain part IV: Pain is subjective
We will be spending the next few weeks looking at the question of pain, specifically trying to discover what pain wants to give us, what...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Jul 7, 20232 min read
#45 Evil Genius
Let’s play another game today. The game is called Evil Genius and is based on a technique called inversion thinking. Our brains are...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Jun 30, 20232 min read
#44 Becoming Sherlock Holmes
Have you noticed that during conflict you usually feel mad or sad, or sometimes even both? But it is not as simple as that. These...
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Francois Esterhuizen
Jun 16, 20232 min read
#42 If you can read this you're too close
Do you know what the legal following distance is when you are driving a car in South Africa? 3 car lengths? 5 metres? Nope. It is 2...
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Francois Esterhuizen
May 4, 20232 min read
#36 Jumping to conclusions is not actually exercise
When someone else’s behaviour does not make sense to us, we have to make up a story to make it make sense to us.
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